Stamp Collecting

Is it still worth collecting stamps for the missions in a digital world?  Yes, definitely.

Stamp collecting is among the most popular pastimes in the world. It has been called “the hobby of kings”.  As we are curious by nature, it is easy to understand why many collectors take an interest in stamps of other countries, or to be more precise, the stamps of certain other countries. The cheapest and most affordable way for these collectors to acquire stamps, from selected countries, is to buy stamps from that particular country.

On average, a parcel of stamps contains about 1200 stamps, with many duplicates.  These parcels are not sorted or picked by the dealers, as labour costs are prohibitive.  This fact benefits the collector as he can do his/her own sorting, falling upon stamps that can be added to his collection, an interesting postmark and on the rare occasion, an exciting error!  Duplicates can be swopped with other collectors or with stamp clubs so there is very little wastage.  To collectors, most of the excitement is in the search and the sense of discovery, stumbling upon a stamp not encountered before.

It is obvious that the Dealer must have large quantities from any one country to weigh out small parcels for sale.  The question is where can he get such quantities in the first place?  The answer is mainly from Religious Orders and certain Charitable Organisations who receive small to medium quantities of stamps from many well-wishers.  Any single offering may be a “widow’s mite”, but added together, these offerings gain considerable weight.  Dealers buy from these sources and apart from the weight the factor that determines the price is the quality of the stamps.

If you have been collecting stamps for MMM, please continue the good work; if you have not, would you please consider doing so now.  The following simple, but golden rules go to help maximise your contribution.

GOLDEN RULES

1. Never try to peel a stamp from an envelope.  You will damage the stamp, making it useless.

2. Clip the stamp and surrounding piece of paper from envelopes, etc.  Leave about ¼ inch of envelope paper clear around the stamp.  This is to ensure the stamp is not damaged.

3. If the envelope has a neat circular postmark, try to include all of the postmark in the clipped piece.  Many collectors are as interested in postmarks as they are in actual stamps.

Please send your stamps to:

Sr. Breeda Ryan, MMM

Stamp Department

Beechgrove

Drogheda, Co. Louth A92 XKX0

Four new MMMs made their First Profession of Vows this year after completing their formation programme in the International Novitiate in Ibadan, Nigeria. Each one comes from a different background and life experience, but all were attracted to serving the poor and needy, using their gifts and talents. Let us introduce them to you

Sr. Pauline Amulen (29) comes from Uganda, one of a family of eight children. Her father was a catechist and started a small Christian Community under a mango tree near his house as there was no church! It grew and eventually a church was built. This is what stimulated in Pauline a firmness in faith and planted the seed of a missionary vocation. Times were hard when she was young as Uganda was going through a period of civil unrest. When she was small, she lost her home, but the family managed to stay together. Her mother was involved in a serious car accident when Pauline was only seven years old. “It forced me to be a mother at a tender age”, she recalls, as she set about caring for her siblings. Because she did well at school, she was able to benefit from scholarships which brought her right up to university level and she graduated in 2017 with a degree in Business computing. Her early life experiences taught her to reach out to the suffering. Now she is assigned to Malawi for her next step in her missionary journey.

Sr. Mary Ogana (32) is from Cross River State in Nigeria. She is the second youngest in a family of five children. Sadly, her mother died when she was only 13 years of age. Her youngest sibling, Precious, was still a baby and Mary was left looking after her as her older siblings were off schooling. Thankfully her father is still alive. Her parents, she says, “were generous, hard-working and peaceful”. After her initial schooling, Mary went to a College of Health Technology and trained as a Community Health Extension Worker (CHEW). Having worked in the health field before she joined MMM, this helped her decide which religious Congregation to join. She is starting her missionary life in Eleta, Ibadan, Nigeria.

Sr. Anastasia Onukafor (26) comes from Abia State, Nigeria. The fifth child of seven, she knew from an early age she wanted to give her life to God as a religious. The family used to joke about it! After finishing school and a course in Computer training, she began working as a nurse’s aid in MMM Hospital in Abakaliki. She tells the story that really impelled her to join our Congregation:
“There was a man lying helplessly outside the hospital gate. He bathed himself with his faeces, looking so weak and abandoned. People were by-passing him but some Sisters of the Medical Missionaries of Mary who came for vocation promotion in Abakaliki picked him up and brought him in. They took care of him, treated his sore, fed and handed him over to the leprosy unit until the relatives came for him. I was touched by this act of compassion, and I felt that I have seen what I was looking for in a congregation. I felt then that it was time to join.”

Sr. Julia Iwuala (38) is from Imo State, Nigeria. Her family were business people and she is one of eight children. After her schooling, she worked with a company as a cashier for a short period and then decided to enter religious life in another Congregation. Around the same time, she lost her mother and found the loss difficult to cope with. So, to give herself time to go through the grieving process, she left the other Congregation and went back to her studies and work. She qualified in Business Administration and worked as a school secretary before joining MMM in 2018.

This year we celebrated the Platinum Jubilee of Queen Elizabeth in England, so it is a good time to look back at 1952 in the MMM world and see what was happening then.

Fire in Drogheda:
On February 13th, 1952, the Novitiate in Beechgrove, opened in 1941, was destroyed by fire. Overnight one hundred and fifty Sisters and novices were left homeless. The people of Drogheda, local convents and even some hotels generously gave accommodation to the homeless Sisters. The new extension to the convent, due to be opened shortly, was only saved from the fire by the quick action of the Drogheda Fire Brigade and the knowledge of local builders who sealed off access. The hospital continued to run normally even though the Matron, Matron Phelan, could see her own apartments going up in flames. There was massive damage structurally but growth in resilience, flexibility and service among the Sisters after this event.

First sod turned:
Despite the disaster of the fire, 1952 was still the year that Mother Mary went ahead with plans for the building of a Training Hospital on a site adjacent to the convent. A ceremony was held to bless the site and turn the first sod in preparation for building.

Earthquakes in East Africa:
During this year two earthquakes occurred in parts of East Africa where MMM were pioneering new missions. In January the Kigoma Region of Tanzania (then, Tanganyika) suffered a 6.2 magnitude shock. There is no record of fatalities. The June 1952 quake was felt in the Western Area of Uganda and in Kabanga where MMM has established a hospital. There was considerable damage to both the convent and the new Dispensary.

Bush Fire in Nigeria:
Lily Murphy, one of the MMM volunteers working in Ogoja, Nigeria reported that a bush fire came dangerously close to the house. Luckily, although there was damage to some property, no one was killed.

London:
Heavy smog began to hover over London, England, on December 4, 1952. It persisted for five days, leading to the deaths of at least 4,000 people. It was a Thursday afternoon when a high-pressure air mass stalled over the Thames River Valley. At this time no one was yet talking about caring for the earth and climate change.

By Sr. Odette Nahayo MMM

One day I was facilitating a programme for the needy elderly people in our community in Wau, South Sudan, and a young woman, whose name I came to know later as Fatima, came in and sat in the corner. She had a child on her lap. My first reaction was to ask her to leave because she was obviously not one of the present group. However, I felt I should first listen to her story before making any decision. I asked her to wait a little, promising that I would attend to her when I finish the session with the group, which normally takes only 30 minutes.

After I finished, I called her and asked why she had come to the Health Centre. Shockingly, the three-year-old child she was carrying was blind and epileptic. Her story touched me, and I promised to visit her.

On my visit to her place, I was stunned to find out that she slept under a tree with her two children. But during the rainy season, neighbours took turns accommodating her for a night or two. Her sad story was that her husband, a soldier, was shot dead. She carried his body back to the village for the burial even though she was pregnant. Returning to the village, she found her house was broken into. All her property, including all the materials of the house itself such as the bricks, the door, the roof and even the grass were stolen. She was left with nothing. She gave birth to a blind son, and as he was growing, she discovered that he was also epileptic. He was unable to stand or remain seated without being supported. Her other son who was in Primary 4 had dropped out immediately after his father’s death due to lack of school fees. The family was left with no hope, weeping day and night.

When I came back home, I shared the story with the Sisters how could we help? One of the Sisters shared the story with a friend who was quite financially secure. He also was touched by the story and requested her to estimate a budget for building a house, check if the elder son wished to resume school and see what the cost of the whole year would be. This was not enough, the benefactor also asked to check if the woman was able to do any business of her choice and what could be the cost. Going in haste, like Mary to Elizabeth, we jumped into action, and gathered all the necessary information. Within the same week, a sum of Three Hundred and Sixty U.S Dollars ($360) was sent. We were grateful to the benefactor. We went quickly to find someone who would do the work, and luckily enough we got people of good will.

Many people were willing to assist and contribute towards this effort. Within a period of two weeks, the family of three started sleeping in their own house. The next step will be her business. She already shared what she would like to do – baking bread, making mandazi, tea and selling other items such as salt, sugar and oil that can easily get customers. She is excited about the future ahead of her. Her son is already telling his friends that very soon he will go back to school. MMM Health Centre has also managed to stabilise the epileptic child and, since he was put on treatment, he has not been in crisis anymore. What more can one say? God always works through his people, for his people.

This is the letter I received from Fatima after she moved into her new house: “I know myself as a hardworking and happy woman. However, after the death of my husband, I lost everything including my joy and remained lonely, I became a beggar, and the taunt of laughter to my neighbours. Even those who were my friends turned into scorners. I was losing my faith, I questioned God several times, but I have learnt that God can delay intervening due to our lack of patience, but He does not stay silent forever. God opened a door, and His servants came in towards me, they fed me, treated my child, built me a house, they promised to start a business and my son to go back to school. Those who were laughing at us are now asking me how I went about it and who are those people who raised me up from the pit. My answer is that God remembered his poor servant and sent his people to me. How can foreigners help people they do not know? Even if I and my children do not eat, no one will notice because we are in our house. Now it is raining, we remember how many times some neighbours refused us a shelter when we needed it. We remember how much we suffered under the tree, then…we glorify the Lord, we pray for the Sisters, their Staff and our Secret friend, and we finally enjoy the nice sound of rain on our roof, we sleep peacefully. Our house is not made of GRASS, it is made of GRACE. I promise to also help those in need. I feel useful to my neighbours, and my identity has been restored. Thanks a lot for your love, Sister, and tell that unknown benefactor that God knows him, he will always intervene in his entire needs”.

by Sr. Cecilia Kanulor

Torugbene mission in southern Nigeria has helped us to discover new and creative ways to live and survive in the climate of this mission. Growing plants and vegetables in sacks is one of them. When we MMMs arrived, we had great difficulty in finding a particular kind of green leaves we were used to. In fact we discovered the local people ate very few fresh vegetables. The long search in Torugbene to find fresh vegetables spurred us into action to start growing through sack gardening.

Through this innovative way of living, we have learnt how to live in plenty and in situations where there is nothing, as Philippians Chapter 4: 12-13 acknowledges. However, purifying the water for domestic use is also included in this experience.

Certainly, sack gardening is ideal for balconies or small gardens where space is scarce. This is not the case in Torugbene, but it is ideal for us for another reason. The reality of developing sack gardening in this environment started when the pioneer sisters arrived on the 1st of October 2015, which was the opening day of the mission. On arrival, the Sisters observed that the place was covered by water being a riverine area.

While settling in this strange environment, the Sisters discovered that there were no vegetables in the area and almost all the people from this region called the Ijaws are not keen on fresh vegetable leaves either.

To stay healthy and carry out the mission work in this area, the Sisters started planting green vegetables, tomatoes, okro, pepper, and water leaves in nylon bags and, sometimes, plastic containers. The reason for this method of planting is because the area is covered by water from July until the middle of December annually. Torugbene is situated in the delta area of the River Niger. So, the sisters engage in growing sack gardening in Torugbene yearly, from July until December when the water-logged areas dry up.

However, through this method, we are assured of having vegetables throughout the year. We also share with patients, especially those that are anaemic. We also have enough to share with our Sisters in the diaspora as well as our friends. Although we do not have the opportunity of getting most of the things that we need upland, especially foodstuff, our surrounding and growing sack gardening annually is sustaining us greatly. This process of planting has also encouraged our neighbours to start planting in sacks too, especially when the place is flooded. Moreover, we are also planting other seeds like; avocado, mango, scent leaves to be transplanted to the garden of the new building when it is completed. Additionally, the experience of micro-gardening has improved our community cuisine, therefore, making our cooking more interesting, tasty, and enjoyable.

Many people still think that slavery is something that existed long ago and far away. Unfortunately, that is not true at all. Rising numbers of especially women and girls are trapped in the vicious cycle of human trafficking each year. It does not appear to be a trend that is going away as poverty rates continue to rise and laws against Human Trafficking are unable to keep up with the trend. MMM Sisters are actively involved in giving a voice to the victims and to working in small communities to protect the most vulnerable people who are deliberately targeted for this. We have been dealing with sexual exploitation for several years, working with hundreds of women surviving sexual exploitation and providing direct support to victims, who were mostly forced into prostitution.

While there is a lot of frustration that more is not being done to help victims who often fall between laws of different countries as they are trafficked, more is needed to be done to help the victims whatever country they arrive in. Trafficked people deserve more dignity and more support. Education is also needed to prevent this from happening in the first place and to help them know what is possible if it does happen.

This year’s theme puts victims of human trafficking at the centre of the campaign and will highlight the importance of listening to and learning from survivors of human trafficking. The campaign portrays survivors as key actors in the fight against human trafficking and focusses on the crucial role they play in establishing effective measures to prevent this crime, identify and rescue victims and support them on their road to rehabilitation. Many victims of human trafficking have experienced ignorance or misunderstanding in their attempts to get help. They have had traumatic post-rescue experiences during identification interviews and legal proceedings. Some have faced revictimization and punishment for crimes they were forced to commit by their traffickers. Others have been subjected to stigmatization or received inadequate support. Learning from victims’ experiences and turning their suggestions into concrete actions will lead to a more victim-centred and effective approach in combating human trafficking.

Why a Blue Heart?
The Blue Heart represents the sadness of those who are trafficked, while reminding us of the cold-heartedness of those who buy and sell fellow human beings.

Did you know?

• In 2018 about 50,000 human trafficking victims were detected and reported by 148 countries.
• 50 per cent of detected victims were trafficked for sexual exploitation, 38 per cent were exploited for forced labour.
• Female victims continue to be the primary targets. Women make up 46% and girls 19% of all victims of trafficking.
• Globally, one in every three victims detected is a child.
• The share of children among detected trafficking victims has tripled, while the share of boys has increased five times over the past 15 years.

Source: UNODC Human Trafficking

Moira Brehony AMMM tells the story of Dareda Hospital in Tanzania, run by MMM Sisters between 1948 and 2000. When MMM withdrew, it left the Associates to maintain the spirit of Mother Mary and of the healing charism. This has continued right up to the present.

Dareda Hospital was opened in January 1948 and the first MMM Sisters to reside there were Sr. Helena Mulcahy and Sr. Clare O’Driscoll. Mother Mary Martin visited Dareda the same year. She decided that the hospital with more MMM Sisters would develop into a bigger facility and offer more services to the poor and in particular to the mother and child in keeping with the true MMM spirit. By 1959 a General Nurse Training school was opened with Sr. Miriam O’Quigley as tutor.

Despite some unplanned events like an earthquake in 1964 the hospital grew from strength to strength and is still operational to this day. It continues to train nurses.

The staff of Dareda hospital were very influenced by the Sisters. The healing charism of MMM continues to this day. A number of staff totally committed their lives to the care of patients both in the hospital and in the outreach mother and child clinics. Many of the staff used to join the Sisters for prayer. Sr. Dolores Kelly who worked in the Pharmacy in Dareda regularly prayed with the staff and the local children and she gave her time every Saturday to visit local families and listen to their stories. MMM Sisters Theresia Samti, Aloysia Lagween, Opportuna Cypriani, Theresia Ladislaus, Lydia Kijuu, Vincent Pallotti, Jacintha Akonaay and Protegia Slaa are all from Dareda and its surrounding areas. MMM now has a new postulant Veronica Michael, from Dareda, whose parents and grandparents knew many of the Sisters.

Following the Congregational Chapter in 1997 the MMM Associate movement was established. In 1999, Sr. Theresia Ladislaus introduced the Associate movement to the staff of Dareda Hospital. By that time, due to a shortage of Sisters, the management of the hospital had been returned to the diocese and a new Congregation of Sisters took over the convent and the hospital grounds.

Six nurses including a nurse tutor signed up for an orientation course given by Sr. Marcelina McCarthy. She regularly visited Dareda hospital from Makiungu hospital. In the year 2000, six ladies made their Associate covenants for one year. The following year, four more staff – three female staff and one male signed up for a new orientation programme. This was facilitated by Sr. Protegia Slaa.

In 2002 Sr. Josephine Grealy revisited Dareda hospital. She was pleasantly surprised and impressed when she found that the staff had all remained working in the hospital and training school and the healing spirit of MMM was so strong. The matron (Mary Akonaay AMMM) and nurse tutor (Bernadette Neema AMMM) were staff who had worked very closely with the Sisters. They in turn were continuing to pass on the MMM spirit to their staff and students. Sr Josephine felt that the associates in Dareda were working and living a life of commitment to the poor as the Sisters had done in the past.

Since March 2020, most of the world has been facing the Covid-19 pandemic. Some countries have been badly hit, such as the USA with over a million deaths, and some countries are reporting very few numbers. For example, the Republic of Benin has reported only 27,000 cases with 163 deaths.

How reliable are the statistics? As in most situations in life, it depends on the ability to record and generate the data. Many of our African countries do not have the infrastructure of health services and medical referrals to produce accurate figures. So, this small synopsis will not even try to guess what is happening.

One thing is obvious looking at data on vaccinations. Of the five countries in East Africa where MMM live, Uganda seems to have had the highest number of cases. Since 2020 to May 6th 2022 there have been 164,118 confirmed cases of Covid-19 with 3,597 related deaths, reported by World Health Organization

(WHO). As of 30th April 2022, a total of 20,899,440 vaccine doses have been administered and 10,250,742 people fully vaccinated which is approximately 23.6% of the population. Other countries have lower rates, often less than 10%.

Latin America is doing better, but has also been badly hit by the diseases. The Sisters in Brazil personally know people who have died. Brazil has reported 665,00 deaths but has managed to vaccinate 77% of the population. In Salvador, the Sisters report that the consequences of the pandemic have been devastating. Where they live, an area of poverty, has seen an increase in social inequality, consequently resulting in unemployment, hunger, and violence. Their response has been one of practical help and emotional and spiritual support.

What are the Sisters on the ground telling us? They are still very cautious, realizing that the pandemic is not over yet. The Sisters in Angola had Covid 19 amongst themselves as well as trying to treat those in the local community. As Sr. Beatrice says: “Although it was a trying period, we cared for each other until everyone became healthy. And even though the public use of facemask is no longer enforced, we make it a priority not to relent until the virus is totally eliminated. In this way, we try to stay safe and keep others safe too. “

In every country the Sisters are encouraging the population to get vaccinated and teaching good hygiene practices to slow the rate of infection. Everything the developed world can do to supply vaccines to the developing world we must encourage.

Covid -19 has certainly made life more challenging for our MMM Sisters. We are certainly open to being challenged and count on all our supporters and benefactors to rally around us as your support is more needed than ever.

by Sr. Mary O’Malley MMM

It was very clear to me that the young woman who came into our office was in great distress. As we introduced ourselves to each other and Lily began to talk – slowly at first – then most of it flowed out in copious tears. I realized that the “Beirut Blast” in August, 2020 had taken a terrible toll on her life. After a painful separation from her husband because of infidelity in July, 2018, she left for ‘greener pastures’ in the Lebanon. She trusted that her 10 year old daughter would be safe with her mother.

Life was hard in Lebanon and Lily was forced in her own words “to do the work of three people.” But she decided not to complain and it was extremely painful when she learned that the first 3 months of her salary was ‘directed’ to her airfare. Then from the fourth month, she received less than half of what was promised. At times she felt angry as most days she was on her feet for 18 – 20 hours or more in back-breaking drudgery. The family she worked for gave her no day off. She said “I was driven like a slave.” (I nodded in agreement). Some days prior to the blast, Lily felt she could take no more and decided to escape, but life on the streets in the capital city was a different kind of nightmare. She joined some Kenyan women who had an equally checkered history of life in Beirut as homeless African women. They all slept in one room and took turns that one waited behind to care for the children, while others worked in various casual jobs during the day.

One night when all the women went out as ladies of the night and while all the children were sleeping, Lily was dragged out by a group of young men who kicked in the door. She was savagely raped by the gang. She said “I went in and out of consciousness”. At that point I was not surprised that she had terrible dreams and nightmares. With the help of a skilled psychiatrist, cum PhD in Clinical Psychology, she healed eventually. But these terrible memories of her experience remain part of her life story. After the blast, people of various nations received some form of assistance from their embassies, but Kenyans did not. So, they got together and decided to storm their embassy. Aa a result, at least 129 of them received tickets to return home.

A New Chapter in her Life
Thankfully, Lily was among those repatriated and came to our office three weeks later. To add to all the woes in her life at that moment, she suspected that she might be pregnant. If I could come with her to the hospital she agreed to go and find out the truth. She shed many tears when the result read Positive, but she bravely told herself and me “it’s not the fault of this baby” Now more than ever Lily needed all our support. As with most victims/survivors of trafficking she had multiple needs to help to heal and restore her back to life.

Together with her medical care, counselling, housing and livelihood, we felt happy that since she had experience in selling fried fish at the market. We felt confident, with her, that it would be a good choice to sustain her, both in the long and short term, no matter where she set up house in Kenya. But in the current sharp downturn in the economic situation, her sales were slow and the fish proved a disaster!! Reason? As she had no means of refrigeration, she was inconsolable after being forced one evening to throw her precious commodity to stray dogs. Next day she requested to come to our office. She had spotted a small secondhand freezer in the market. However, she was halting in her enthusiasm and said “but, Sr Mary, you have done so much for me”. I did not hesitate for a moment and suggested we purchase it and have a man pulling a cart (mkokoteni) to take it to her home. From that time her project has gone from strength to strength. On a good day her income can be Euro 25.00 or just Euro 6.00, if customers are few.

“My Beautiful Lebanese Daughter”
In June, 2021, Lily gave birth to a baby girl. She called me to say “I have a beautiful Lebanese daughter.” Only a woman of extraordinary courage and a heart full of forgiveness could make such a statement. Of the months of counselling, she said: “only for this gift of counselling and the means of livelihood, I could never have coped so well and be where I am today.” Lily’s 12-year-old firstborn (girl) is now ready to join First Year in secondary school shortly, it will be a good test of her ability to cope with these extra expenses. We wish her well and are here to support her.