by Sr. Sheila Campbell MMM Ireland 09.08.2022
MMM history can teach me many lessons. When I was scrolling through some material the other day, I found an excerpt from a draft version of our MMM Constitutions from 1978. It made a lot of sense for me that day as I live in the Motherhouse and daily encounter Sisters who are even older than I am! I thought I would share it as living with older people is a reality for many of us. Slightly adapted it reads:
“Be grateful for your friends and relatives who are old.
Be open to them that you may learn from them. Their serenity and peace speak to you of God’s faithfulness.
Their wisdom, born of experience, and their sense of humour tells you about the world, about life.
Life is not something to be grasped but a gift, always new, to be received and shared.
In a world orientated towards power and success, a world which tends to consider other people only for their own achievements, they reveal to you the true meaning of poverty and of rootedness in Christ.
To be is more important than to have. To be for Christ, rooted in love, is more important than to do.
And when your friends and relatives are no longer preoccupied with their own usefulness, they render a service which was not planned: they become teachers.
They teach you about your illusions of immortality and invite you into creative contact with your own ageing.
Ageing is no longer to be feared: it is the beginning of a promise, the promise of a new life, the fullness of God, who is All.
Only in the depths of your heart, in quietness and prayer, will you discover your own capacity for the Light, Life and Love that is God”.
by Nadia Ramoutar, MMM Communications Coordinator Ireland 07.08.2023
Recently, my life took me in two different directions and I found myself spending time in two very different towns. In one town, the people on the surface appeared to have very little but were rich in spirit. They didn’t all have running water or electricity and many had concrete floors and walls. They didn’t have many cars and many people walked everywhere. There was not much food, but people were very generous with what they did have. There was a lot of joy in being greeted by these people. There was singing and dancing. People clapped with delight to meet me and to welcome me over and over again.
In the other town things were almost opposite.
The people had a lot of symbols of wealth. They had very big cars on very nice roads. There homes are large and they are filled with massive televisions and cupboards and fridges overfilling with food. They have air conditioning everywhere in homes, cars, and shops. They are cutting down trees like crazy to build more and more roads, houses, and shops. They are very busy and unable to stop and acknowledge one another kindly. No one sings or dances. People are often rude and rushing. They do not look fondly at strangers but with caution. Many are struggling with anxiety and seem unable to enjoy their many treasures.
Being in two such different places made me question reality.
Perhaps this is a good thing for me to do. What is wealth? What makes people happy? Why are some people so miserable and rude even though they have so much accumulated in their life?
After much reflection, I realised that the real difference is not what it appears to be. When you strip away the appearances of things and look at what might be going on under the surface much of all this comes down to one thing: gratitude.
In the town where people seem to have so little in terms of material wealth, they are so grateful for what they do have in their life. They have not expected to have more than this perhaps. In the place where there is much material wealth, they expect to have even more. In their expectation, we see the suffering. The perceived “lack” is not only my perception because in the first town, the children really do need resources and essential things like food and medical care. I witnessed first-hand the amount of gratitude children and adults show when receiving gifts of education, health, self-reliance and empowerment.
The experience that really separates the two towns is gratitude.
When the MMM Sisters go out to start a mission, they do not assume what the local people need. They go to remote areas where no one else will provide these resources. In doing so, they listen to the people and what is most important. Sometimes it is water, or a clinic or natural therapies. They find out what will lift the people up and what will serve them. They do not assume to know based on what they see. This is why the people where the MMM Missions are feel so much in partnership with our efforts. We have not make assumptions based on our cultures. In receiving the services, the people feel empowered, which is much more important than being helped.
In gratitude, we are rich in spirit.
by Sr. Margaret Anne Meyer MMM U.S.A. 05.08.2023
How can this be? Is that what the flight into Egypt felt like? My two companions remained in Rosemount to enjoy Christmas with Mother Mary and the Community while I was asked to go to Killybegs, Co Donegal, to our holiday house . There I was to enjoy Christmas with Sr. Perpetua Kelly and Bishop McGinley. Sister Doctor Matthew Carroll, who had recently qualified, and Sr Cora Wall, on leave from Nigeria, were already there when I arrived. Very soon, a lovely community was formed, and I loved listening to the stories of these two senior Sisters. They had us doubled up in laughter and even the Bishop joined in. Sr. Cora was a gifted storyteller from Cork.
The Bishop made me a little homesick, because he was constantly talking about Southampton, Long Island, New York, a place I knew well because of its proximity to my mother’s birthplace. Bishop was always joking and telling me I would be getting the Nobel prize because I would forget to place the bell on his table where he ate his meals.
Soon it was time to return to Rosemount and continue our medical studies in UCD, University College, Dublin. We had dissected our precious lady’s body and she generously let us continue for the rest of the term. I t was exciting to see where all the muscles, nerves and blood vessels were to be found exactly in the body. We made lasting friendships in the dissecting room as we explored together the extricate amazement of perfection in how our bodies were created by God. Our anatomy lectures were highly valued to clarify what we were dissecting.
Physiology continued to reveal intricate secrets of how our bodies secreted the right substances to digest our foods. We learned about the KREBS cycle of digestion. Even the joints were lubricated by synovial fluid. I found the working of the kidneys fascinating. Our lecturer Dr. Breathnach, Irish for ‘Walsh’, would always preface his class with, “Now a word about the kidney.” He seemed to go on every day for months with a word about the kidney, and he never bored us with his words.
We also had a course on histology so we could learn what a normal organ such as a kidney would look like. Biochemistry became increasingly difficult as we were taught how to recognize the various solutions.
The examinations in May came all too fast. Dr. Daly came to our aid by giving us a grind on Saturdays to review all our physiology lessons. I again found it difficult to face six essay questions to be completed in three hours on any topic covered in the various classes since October. We also had practical anatomy exams in which we could be given any bone in the body to describe, except for the head and neck as that would constitute Second Medical. I did my best, and kept on telling God, “Please help me to pass if you want me to be a doctor in Africa.” Well, God heard us, and we passed. God really must want us to serve the people in Africa. We were incredibly grateful and thankful that when we had completed First Medical, we would start Second Medical in the Fall. And that is another story.
by Eilín Teeling AMMM Ireland 03.08.2023
In the winter of 2022, I was ill with pneumonia, a serious respiratory infection. I needed powerful medicine of strong antibiotics, steroids, and our home nebuliser (breathing in a fine mist of yet more medicine) to get well which I very much appreciated. Thankfully I avoided being admitted to hospital. I slowly improved over time.
In the fog of illness, I doubted whether I would become well again. I found it difficult to feel connected to God. I couldn’t meditate as I was distracted by the sounds of my breathing, of rattles, wheezes and interrupted by coughing. God seemed to be hiding behind a cloud and I felt I was being tested; “my God, why have you forsaken me?(Mk 15:34).
I remembered then Julian of Norwich (1342 – 1416). She developed a positive attitude as she lived through illness and a time of dreadful plague in England. She asked God about sin and suffering and received a response which showed God’s love and compassion; “I make all things well and you will see that every kind of thing will be well.” She reflected on this as it was difficult to understand how things could be well in the midst of suffering and plague. It came to her that Love is the meaning, that all will be well through love.
I drew comfort from this, repeating to myself “all shall be well, and all shall be well, and all manner of things shall be well.” I began to concentrate on the present moment and to feel blessed by the loving care that I received from my family.
I began to reflect on breathing, something we take for granted. Air is all around us and we breathe it in every second of every day. We receive the breath of life from God, and at Pentecost, Jesus breathed the Holy Spirit on the disciples. God is right here with us, in every breath, in the Holy Spirit. How could I doubt God when the Holy Spirit is with my breath, just as air is, nudging me to stay connected, to love.
For all those who are struggling with illness, I pray that they receive the medical and loving care they need, and they sense God’s love with each breath.
by Nadia Ramoutar MMM Communications Coordinator Ireland 01.08.2023
In Ireland a friend of mine who is usually healthy, recently had a heart issue that could have caused him a heart attack or a stroke. He was quickly referred to a cardiac specialist and spent a week having tests and getting all the resources he needed to go on with his life. Many people living in remote or desolate areas are without such resources, so the death rate in those areas are much higher than they are in the western world. We look at the numbers on this, we can see that they don’t lie.
In Africa the average age of a person dying is 64 years.
In Europe the average age of a person dying is 80 years.
In the United States the average age of a person dying is 79 years.
The country in the world with the highest average life expectancy is Monaco with the average age of death of a male at 85.17 years and a female is expected to live to be 88.99 years.
This is attributed to multiple factors including the healthy Mediterranean diet of seafood, fresh fruits and vegetables. It is also because the country has a state of the art health care system that is state funded. A third reason is that a large percentage of the population have enough disposable income to afford a healthy lifestyle. Of course there is ample access to clean and fresh water bottled or otherwise.
We can see how those factors in reverse are creating a much shorter life expectancy in Africa. Food insecurity, poverty and low income living, a lack of access to medical resources and lack of security in many ways emotionally, physically and mentally.
The increase in violence is now an added factor in reducing life expectancy, not to mention famine and drought.
The average life expectancy of a man in Nigeria now is 61 years for a man and 63 for a female, making it one of the lowest in the world. Despite all the progress in medical research making life expectancy so much longer around the world, in Africa the life expectancy rate grows at 0.46 %. So we see that the technology, quality of life and advancements in medical care are only valid for some people in the world.
While visiting Tanzania recently and witnessing the challenges that young mothers and babies face living remotely and in poverty, I became painfully aware yet again that the geography of where you are born remains the major factor in your destiny. Born in a Western country, there are so many human rights and resources guaranteed to you from birth while for, other people born elsewhere, there are no promises not only on the length of your life, but also on the quality of those years.
It can only be an injustice that we don’t really ask ourselves how this unfairness is accepted as what, normal? Some people should suffer and barely survive while so many others should prosper. Is this what it means to be a Christian? Is it okay to just ignore the needs of a large part of the world with beautiful people in it just trying to live? I know that no one likes to talk about these questions and it’s hard to bring it up to people at dinner parties or back yard BBQs. We each have to live from our own conscience, but for me I am grateful that I am so aware of the disparity so I can do whatever it is that I can do to even the playing field globally, not just in my own back yard.
by Anna Dillon USA 30.07.2023
Anna Dillon, a retired teacher, was a close friend and supporter of MMM in Boston, USA. Sr Jude Walsh described her as follows: “Each year she got better and better ideas as to how best to help MMM when she retired from teaching. She put all her energies and wisdom into her work for MMM. At the same time she took care of her invalid sisters, Edna and Noni. With her enthusiasm and charm she roped in all her friends and others, in such a way that many of them felt it a privilege to be associated with Anna’s project. Each year it seemed as if she had new exciting ideas and her enthusiasm was contagious. This prevented any of her helpers getting bored doing the same thing each year. Anna also encouraged her helpers to bring their own talents and ideas to the project, which they did willingly.” These words of Anna were first published in 1977.
It reminded the Editor that Drogheda has a Christmas Craft Fair planned for November 25th this year……
It seems to me that our dear Lord has a tremendously droll sense of humour. Back in 1967, God gave me the idea that I should give the Medical Missionaries of Mary a bit of help at their Boston Christmas Bazaar. I had seen one of their films and felt a sense of guilt that I had done so little for the missions.
“Ten or fifteen clown dolls for their toy table will be a help”, I thought. Smugly, I felt this would be a very respectable contribution. Like most people, I was setting the extent to which I would come involved. But the ever more generous Lord had different ideas. He was thinking in greater numbers than I.
I talked so enthusiastically about what I was going to do that I soon had a nucleus of close friends who were eager to help. We bought our materials and set a night for the task. We cut, sewed and stuffed about a dozen or more clown dolls. A cousin of mine had provided the patterns and she became the first director of the work. There were many laughs as we ’non-expert’ doll makers worked. Surprisingly, the results were quite good! Truly, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, for our workers became our first eager buyers. All the clown dolls were sold, and we had money for the MMM Bazaar, but no dolls to sell at the Fair when the first night ended.
That meant, of course, that we must meet again. We did. And again, we ended the night with no dolls for the Fair, but always more money for the MMM work. The meetings became weekly affairs, for we were getting many orders for dolls. They were now making a name for themselves as MMM Clown Dolls. Some of the Sisters joined us each night and we were a happy lot as we worked and listened to mission stories and some tall ones of our own.
We were astonished to find that no matter how many dolls we made, we had no dolls for the Fair, but always money to go into the MMM pot. The Bazaar came and went and we were still cutting, sewing and stuffing, dolls in Christmas week. We were trying to fill the last few orders so that we would have no disappointed customers on Christmas Day. It seemed as though every family in Boston wanted an MMM Clown Doll under their Christmas tree.
The MMM Sisters were as thrilled with our success as we were. God had not only blessed the work of our hands, but God had let us share in the joy of helping the missions. By now they were convinced that we were an integral part of the MMM work of healing. Within the next five years we made more than 2500 MMM Clown Dolls – and then we stopped counting. Those who could crochet or knit used their talents for the missions. Some made other stuffed toys and animals.
How God must laugh when looking down on my tiny goal of ten or twelve clown dolls for the Boston Christmas Bazaar. God has let so many people share in the joy of helping MMM that we no longer limit our involvement.
And what must I do tomorrow? I must make ten or fifteen Clown Dolls, of course. Come, share my joy.
by Sr. Rita Kelly MMM Ireland 28.07.2023
Iona is one of the hundred small islands on the west coast of Scotland. In 563 AD. St Colmcille or Columba from Derry founded a monastery on this remote island. From this monastery Columba and his monks preached the Gospel on the mainland of Scotland and islands. Many churches and monasteries in this part of the world flourished until they were suppressed during the Reformation. I the mid-20th century George McLeod, a Glasgow-based Presbyterian pastor restored the abbey and founded a religious organisation call the Iona Community. The Iona Community, remains in residence as a living and worshipping presence.
Iona Island was on my bucket list. As part of a Sabbatical programme in Perth Scotland I had the opportunity fulfil that dream. On the 16th June, twenty participants plus leaders commenced the pilgrimage. Starting with a prayer:
I set out now in pilgrimage,
Leaving aside the clutter and distraction of the world,
To walk in the footsteps of your Son,
To walk in the footsteps of St. Colmcille.
The pilgrimage commenced with a bus journey from Kinnoull, Perth (East Scotland) to Oban (West Scotland). Travelling up mountains and down valleys we marvelled at the wonderful display of God’s Creation. Arriving at the lovely port of Oban, in beautiful sunshine, we headed, by ferry to the Isle of Mull.
Staying overnight in Mull, and setting out early the next morning we travelled by bus across the Isle from Tobermory to Finnphort where there was a shorter ferry journey to Iona. True to form the day was showery, windy and dull. Following the step of St. Columba, our first visit was to the Abbey Church, the foundation of the first monastery. it was also the site of St. Columba’s burial. But during the Vikings invasions of 8th 9th and 10th century, the relics of St. Columba were removed for safety to Kells, Ireland.
As we walked through the island we noticed that many of the stone structures of the Crosses and Churches had the Celtic architectural designs. . On one site I noticed a sign “The World of Women”. It was the ruins of a nunnery built in the 13th Century. A community of nuns lived there whose ministry was to care for abandoned women and children in this remote part of the world.
In all there are twenty-four places where one stops and pray, but the high point of the pilgrimage, p, was the celebration of the Eucharist in the Michael Chapel. After the celebration we pondered on what we sensed was a sacred place, of “oneness” with Columba and his monks, representing different parts of the world: Thailand, Hong Kong, Singapore, Sri Lanke, Australia, Nigeria, Kenya, England, Scotland and Ireland; A global Church with the common vision of sharing the good news. Like the present century St. Columba lived in a trouble world.
To round off of the Pilgrimage we concluded with a prayer of gratitude:
Whenever we g0 –
Let us bring with an awareness of your presence and the joy of your kingdom,
Where you live with your Son and Holy Spirt, one God forever and ever Amen.
by Sr. Bridie Canavan MMM Ireland 26.07.2023
The night was alive with a thousand eyes. This came to my mind as I looked out at the star-studded sky from the veranda of our desert house in Nakwamoru, Kenya. I was on my way to bed. It was very hot, not a night for sleeping, but tomorrow we had an early start as our Mobile Dispensary team had a long safari before them. We had to do a few hundred vaccinations as well as treating ang ill children. So, the bed beckoned.
Suddenly there was a meaningful knock at the door and the sound of a distressful voice calling “Sister”. A concerned father and mother waited outside – each holding a twin. They were six months old and acutely ill with malaria and anaemia. They had trekked for hours to get to us and in faltering Swahili they entreated me to cure their babies. The babies had burning fever and all the tell-tale symptoms of dehydration. Even the mother’s own skin was dry and tough from the heat and the long travelling without water.
Here in Nakwamoru we are in the midst of the desert and in the dry season; the riverbed is just sand, and more sand. It is hard to believe that this same river can be so swollen in the “long rains” and we are virtually cut off from everywhere.
The babies’ names, Kona and Emuria, both boys, were to become very popular in the weeks ahead. It was an uphill effort at first with very little hope of recovery. But, with the help of the parents and the staff, they were brought through the crisis and everyday it gave us new heart to see them improve.
They were lovely children, especially Kona, who won our hearts with his antics, drawing attention to his first tooth which was forcing its way up through his little gums. Emuria, toothless and a quieter baby, seemed content to take a back seat as long as he got regular feeds!
The story had a happy ending. Two months later the happy parents brought back the two very healthy babies. Kona, now eight months old, still had his hand in his mouth, now caressing his second tooth and flashing his mischievous smile on us all.
How happy I was to see them before I left for home leave in Ireland, leaving the busy health centre in the capable hands of Sr. Canisius and Sr. Margaret.
Desert life has its crosses, but also its consolations and compensations as in the case of Kona and Emuria.
First published in 1988
by Nadia Ramoutar MMM Communications Coordinator Ireland 24.07.2022
Currently, there is major construction work going on in front of the house I live in on a road in rural Ireland. I am not a fan. It’s noisy, dusty and there is a temporary traffic light in front of my house that makes noise constant. It is hard to drive in and out of my house because people stop in front of my gate constantly. My two dogs are upset by the heavy equipment noise all day long.
The other day when I got home from work, the water had been cut off without any warning by the construction crew. I was unprepared for the realisation, tired and thirsty.
When the water did come back to the taps, it was dark brown at first and it sounded like the tap was going to explode. The dog took off running into the back garden and hide under a bush for a few hours.
I called a friend who knows about these things. He checked with a neighbour and explained that I needed to let the water run for a while so I did. It went from brown to a silty white. I was not going to even try to get the dogs to drink it.
So, I decided to walk to the local shop and get water. When I put two 5 litre plastic bottles on the counter, the woman at the shop went into a tirade. Had my water been turned off? So had hers and we had no notice. She was far more upset than me.
It’s a longer walk back to my house than I imagined carrying the water. Soon I had to stop and readjust the handles. Did I need to get both, maybe I should have just gotten one? But, when I finally made it home, the 10 litres went very fast. I was amazed how much water I actually use in an evening.
Having recently been in Tanzania, this experience was not lost on me. I thought of the mothers like me who need water for the family and have to get it. They face this dilemma every day. Living beings are dependent on clean water daily. We may not have to eat all day, but we will not survive without clean water.
At the source of all life for plants and animals – including humans is clean water. Yet, for so many people where our MMM Missions serve there is no access. Women and girls can walk as far as six hours a day to bring water to the family. Girls often given the task for getting water in the family are unable to go to school. They literally do not get educated because their role of getting water for the family is more important than having them go to school.
I am painful aware of how privileged I am to be educated all the way through advanced University degrees. But, the pursuit of wisdom is not possible for those with a well far away. I didn’t have to sacrifice my education to get water for the family but as the youngest girl if I had been born somewhere else I probably would have had the job. No one would have ever expected a girl in the Western world to be illiterate to get water. It’s not a sacrifice that seems reasonable, but for many it is not only expected it is demanded. I find myself moved to tears by the injustice of the way geography of your birth can determine your destiny.
It was so easy for me to solve the inconvenience of my water situation. We can’t just turn our back on how impossible it is for families in remote areas to solve their water crisis. We continue to work with communities to solve this problem and we acknowledge the physical, emotional and mental challenge it create. We know that water is precious and so are the lives of the people denied access to it daily.
The Ceremony of the Roses
by Mary Coffey AMMM Ireland 22.07.2023
We have just had our annual literary festival in Kells and I was asked to put together an item about our refugee work of the last 5 years. One of the contributors was Andrea Martin, a relative of Mother Mary Martin, who had invited me to join her in her work with young Afghan women. My talk went well and, at times I, myself, was moved to tears. At the end I came down off the podium and said that I had one last, very important, story to tell, and I told the story of the roses. This is the story I told earlier of roses triggering happy memories for a family if Syrian refugees.
It is such a contrast with our images of refugee camps and bombed out cities. It is an understanding of the life, with its simple pleasures, that these people have left behind. The fact was that a not well-off mother rearing nine children, with her husband often away looking for work, had space in her life for the tending of roses and that she had beauty in her life.
If people had spotted that there were potted roses on the podium, they probably thought that they were part of the furniture, but when I finished my story of the roses, I called on Fedaa to come forward and to choose a rose to give to her mother. As Fedaa and I hugged you could hear a pin drop. It was a magical moment.
There was also a rose for Shafaq to give to his mother Begum. Shafaq is an Afghan lawyer and human rights activist, whom I welcomed to my home after the fall of Kabul, at the request of Andrea Martin. It was with great joy that, three months later, I brought Shafaq to Dublin Airport to welcome his mother Begum and his sister Arezo, who had been in a refugee camp in Abu Dhabi. We were a very happy little family in my home for a further three months before they found their own place to stay.
In 2018 I welcomed a young Syrian man, Belal, to my home under a Red Cross Pledge a Room scheme. He had travelled the hazardous boat journey from Turkey to Greece before being welcomed to Ireland as a programme refugee. Belal was afforded family reunification also, and we welcomed his parents, younger sister and older brother to Kells two years ago. Belal was also invited to choose a rose for his mother Malaka.
For Fedaa to give a rose to her mother was the inspiration for this Ceremony of the Roses, but she deserved a rose of her own, and so I invited Fedaa’s eldest daughter, Maysa, to give a rose to her mum.
There was still one rose on the podium. Andrea Martin is a woman of immense vision and compassion who is ‘mother’ to so many Afghans whom she was able to bring to Ireland in the aftermath of the fall of Afghanistan to the Taliban. Most are young women belonging to an organization called Ascend Athletics, that empowers young Afghan women through mountaineering. The rock in Andrea’s life is Paul. Paul was very taken aback to be called upon to present a rose to his beloved Andrea.
What was designed to be a presentation of our work with refugees was transformed by the Ceremony of the Roses into a celebration into which we had invited friends, neighbours, visitors and strangers. People were profoundly touched by it. Above all else it was a celebration of motherhood, of the glue that holds our societies and our families together both in wartime and in peacetime.
“Gentle woman, quiet light, morning star, so strong and bright.
Gentle Mother peaceful dove, teach us wisdom teach us love”
