by Sr. Sheila Campbell MMM Ireland 12.01.2024
Each morning I get up early and usually follow the same routine – get dressed, have breakfast, pray in the chapel, and then go for a walk. Isn’t it funny how we love to fall into the same routines each day. Yes, we can take interruptions, but when things settle, there we are, back at the same old routine!
Today I was thinking about my routines and why I am so attached to them. I feel they give me a solid grounding for the day. As I set myself “on automatic pilot” I have time to think, to plan and to savour the moment. Each day is different, depending on the weather. When I step outside, will I be met with a gentle breeze or the breath-taking freeze of a frosty morning? And yet, I trudge along the same familiar path each day and discover something new. One morning there will be slightly more traffic as I set out slightly later, but I still see the workers arriving for their morning shifts in the hospital and greet the same people at the bus stop! As the seasons change, I watch the leaves fall or the new shoots spring forth in the earth.
I was remembering my mother standing at the sink doing the washing up. So much of life is made up of these small routines. My sister-in-law tidies her linen cupboard and has all the towels and sheets folded to perfection! I think of routines as “breathing spaces” in the day. When things are done “automatically” it leaves our spirit free to wander and to dream.
I wonder what routines Jesus had built into his life. We hear of the parables, the teachings, but not too much about the humdrum, and there must have been a lot of that. As an itinerant preacher the must often have been walking along the road. I bet he was doing just what I do, watch the changing seasons, look out for rain, greet people along the way. It would have been a time for him to think about his mission, to choose his apostles, to ask his Father for guidance.
I love routines, they keep me sane, but I just ask for enough disruption in my days that routines don’t become ruts!
by Nadia Ramoutar MMM Communications Coordinator Ireland 10.01.2024
As one year ends and another begins, there is this glimmer of hope that somehow in January we will be better people. After some self-indulgence in December for Christmas and New Year’s or whatever holiday you celebrate, (December is a busy month for world religion!), January has a stark reality to wake us up. The bank and the scales often reflect the fun we had celebrating. Now, as we face the work ahead we are hopeful that in the year coming, we are somehow going to make better choices. But, the truth remains that we are the same people we were before with the same habits. Those very human habits we have are not so innocently contributing to the death of our own home planet. While the Universe continues to grow according to scientists, our earth is showing major signs of not only decline, but demise.
I read something recently that jolted me into an awakening I was unprepared to experience. So this January I am going on a Climate Crisis Diet. No, this does not mean I will avoid listening to any news about Climate Change; it means that I am going to try really hard to stop consuming or behaving in ways that further hurt our planet.
“Perhaps our efforts towards sustainability from here on should really be reframed as palliative measures. Or is there time yet for radical surgery and treatment?” This quote comes from an article by Doctors For the Environment was the metaphoric mallet to the head I needed to wake me out of my denial.
The idea that our planet needs to enter into a “palliative” mode stopped me in my tracks. I am not ready to let our Earth enter this phase. This is the place that I love so much, a place I want preserved for future generations, and this is the only home we have. Like caring for a beloved relative, I am not ready to stop fighting for radical surgery and treatment for our one and only Earth. Are you?
We have those who want to deny that the climate crisis is real. I offer first hand witnessing of the ravishing effects of the climate change in Tanzania recently. We can look at any part of the world and look at the bizarre weather and ecological changes that are ferociously showing evidence that all is not well. Often when a loved one is diagnosed with a serious illness or disease, they or other loved ones deny the seriousness of the impact of it, ignoring how critical the timing is for treatment. We are now in that moment, it is now or it is never.
For me, the time is now. I am not willing to accept palliative care for our planet – yet, not until I have exhausted every effort I know. I hope you will resolve in 2024 to take whatever steps you can to keep our Earth alive. Live more simply, consume yet and contribute positive efforts towards sustainability.
If you would like to know more about Irish Doctors for the Environment or read the full article on this, please visit: https://ide.ie
by Moira Brehony AMMM Ireland/Tanzania 08.01.2024
When I see Rose from Masaka, Uganda I understand what prayer really means. Rose grew up in Masaka, Uganda and as a young woman, she met a man and bore a son for him called David. She went on to marry this man when his first wife passed away and they had two more daughters.
Unfortunately, Rose’s husband died within a few years of their marriage. Rose was always a very spiritual person and prayed regularly, thanking God for her children whom she was able to educate, and they in turn secured good jobs. Rose’s eldest son, David, was a secondary school teacher and lived in Kampala. However, he had his struggles in life.
In 2019, David was found unconscious in his bed and was taken to the hospital. He was diagnosed with an acquired brain injury. Four years later, David is now back home in the village living with his mam, Rose, and has no idea who or where he is. Rose is the full-time caregiver for her son, both day and night. She nourishes, bathes, and prays with him every day.
Caring for David often proves difficult, and he does not always appreciate what his mam does for him. Rose herself is on strong medication for a chronic infection and she needs to eat regularly and keep herself healthy. She is attached to her local Legion of Mary presidia and never misses a meeting. Rose has talked to many priests about David and, with a lot of difficulty, has taken him on local transport to prayer meetings. Rose is always energised at these sessions, and she also feels it has a calming effect on David. Rose’s children are good to her, and they look after their brother financially so that all his medical and physical needs are met.
How important is prayer to Rose? Rose is a strong believer and prays, thanking God for all the graces she has received in having the good health to look after her son. She sees it as a privilege that she has been given this task of caring for her own flesh and blood. Rose is not looking for praise. However, I see her as a special person that radiates her selfless love for her son but, without her strong faith and prayer life, she would be different.
We thank God for people like Rose in this life who are a constant reminder that prayer is all powerful. While staying with me, Rose has just celebrated her 68th birthday while on her first break in four years from caring for David.
by Sr. Sheila Campbell MMM Ireland 06.01.2024
There is something very humbling when we come to celebrate the Feast of the Epiphany this year on January 6th. Here in Ireland, we honestly don’t make much ado about this day, but in other cultures they celebrate it more. I remember in Brazil it was called “Dia dos Reis”, or “Day of the Kings”, and some customs included house visiting and there were traditional carols for the Feast. I know the Italians and the Orthodox Churches have their own customs too. What I do love about the day is that it is about the stranger, the foreigner. It is a reminder to us each year that Christianity is not just for the “chosen few”, or the righteous, but for everyone.
That is why I find it humbling this year to celebrate Epiphany. We hear of caravans of people crossing the Sahara Desert in the hope of reaching Europe. The Mexican/U.S.A. border is also a flash point because of the number of migrants coming up from Central America. Closer to home we have the news of small boats, sometimes inflatable dinghies, crossing the Channel and people being drown. Climate change is real and migration due to climate extremes will only be on the increase. Am I aware of this? Can I accept and embrace this challenge?
I ask myself these questions and realise that there are possibilities embedding in the challenge itself. Mary and Joseph received the visit of the Magi and accepted gifts for Jesus. Am I open to receiving gifts from those who come into my life this year? Sometimes I am just too comfortable in my own little routines. I need a major “shake-up” every now and again to stay in the real world!
So, this year I celebrate the Epiphany a little bit more “low key” as I realise how much I need to change on the inside to be a truly welcoming person. I pray for the openness and the willingness to be “visited” by others.
by Sr. M. Francis Morris (1919 – 1993) Ireland 04.01.2024
First published by MMM in 1952
The early morning was cool, and the peace and stillness of the dawn was not yet broken by “the cares that infest the day” before we set out for Mbube, to do our weekly dispensary. Esa was in his usual driving form, which always reminds me of my mother’s friend who gave a warning before stepping on the accelerator. “Now, say three Hail Marys for a safe journey.” And we, knowing her form, added a few ‘trimmings’ on the quiet. After scaring the wits out of unwary strollers and chickens along the way, and with a magnificent flourish of the horn, Esa announced to the waiting crowd that we had arrived.
As usual, the people had turned out as if it to a football final. The little mud-walled room where we carried out treatment was a stadium, judging by their anxiety to get in before the man in front. Eventually, after about three hours of case histories, followed by prescriptions, injections, tablets, bandages and so forth, the ‘match’ was over, and we began to pack up.
t was then that Baby Number One came into my life. As if he knew he had to make a good impression, he lay there as quiet as a mouse in his father’s arms. “Please, Sister, his mother done die, make Sister be his mother now.” I looked at the little one, about three or four months old I judged, and, as yet not looking too undernourished. I weighed the pros and cons. By right they should go on another fifty miles to our orphanage – but would they? If not, I knew what the outcome would be. Unless specially cared for, a motherless baby out here will die within a few months at most. We would take it, I said, provided he had somebody to “look it”, as they say here, until we could send it on to the orphanage. To my surprise, the father had a small girl on the spot. He had made up his mind not to take any chance of a refusal! So here I was with my first African baby.
Feeling pleased with myself, I walked down to the car, followed by Baby Number One and all his relations. As I reached the car, I stopped dead. There, sitting on the grass was another man, yes, holding another baby. Suddenly, Doctor’s voice broke in: “Sister, could you ever take this baby? The mother is dead, and it will certainly die if we don’t take it.” “Of course,” I replied with some semblance of calm, I hope. I asked about the nursemaid – no one was available. I wondered how the rest of the community would react to my acquisitions. I certainly had to count on them.
And so Baby Number Two came into my life. He certainly looked as if he would not last a week. He was dehydrated, emaciated, and everything a neglected baby could be. On arrival I installed my ‘treasures’ in the quarters where all such “odds and ends” are kept – such as dispensary patients who decide to stay for a long weekend, being so pleased with their treatment. We broke the news gently to the household and all passed off much better than anticipated. Baby Number One was quite content as he had somebody’s hip to sit on and survey the world. Baby Number Two – well, a drop of brandy was indicated, and he slept all night. But next morning and all day long “the noise of battle roared” until at last “the poor pet” got used to our foreign ways and gradually he scored a record of ten non-crying hours.
The day arrived when the orphanage trip was planned. The staff were up early to see the babies scrubbed and dressed up in going away clothes, ready for 6am. Denis, Baby Number Two, as we now called him, refused to eat his breakfast. I wished I could talk to him and tell him of his father’s wishes. I would assure him he would find a good mother in his new home.
by Vera Grant AMMM Ireland 02.01.2024
A couple of weeks ago I sat in the packed auditorium and waited for the first female President of Ireland to enter. She had agreed to come to the Seamus Heaney Homeplace in Bellaghy to be interviewed by Mark Carruthers, a Northern Ireland journalist.
In she walked, slowly and yet stately to rapturous applause, smiled as she took her seat and nodded at the enthusiasm of the audience.
Her opening words were to pay tribute to her good friend and much-loved poet, Seamus Heaney.
It wasn’t the words she spoke; it was her voice and I could feel the tears welling up in my eyes. The last and only time I had seen Mary Robinson in person was the day her cavalcade swept into the newly refurbished workhouse in Dunfanaghy, Co. Donegal. The year was 1995 and the summer sun had shone brightly on the throng who had come from near and far to see this woman of our time, the President of Ireland.
Then, like now, she had smiled, waved, and shook her head acknowledging the warmth of the welcome. Her words echoed in my head as I listened and watched her nearly thirty years later. I recalled how still with that same strong, empathic voice she paid tribute to those who had nothing and in desperation had sought shelter and food in the Workhouse. It was thanks to them and their strength of character in overcoming the stigma of the Workhouse that we were here today. They were our people, our forefathers and the legacy they gave us, was life itself.
Now, Mary spoke about what was happening in the world, from the wars in Ukraine and Gaza to the new concept of artificial Intelligence and its impact on humanity.
In preparing for this past Advent, I did a course which included the role of Our Lady in the weeks leading up to the birth of Our Lord. In response to God’s call Mary had answered, “Yes”, and even at times when it felt like a sword was piercing her heart, she was constant; it was always, “Yes Lord, Thy Will Be Done.”
The mantle of Our Lady enveloping this other Mary was evident in all that she has accomplished, saying Yes when the odds were stacked against her at 100/1 to become President, saying Yes to Nelson Mandela to become a founding member of The Elders and saying Yes in accepting the role of The United Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights.
In her many roles, too many to list here, Mary Robinson’s priority was to advance the causes of women and marginalised people. Her willingness to be the voice for those who cannot speak for themselves transformed the lives many.
There was a standing ovation at the end for this remarkable woman who is almost eighty years of age and is still actively campaigning worldwide on human rights.
For me the message of Advent resounded – throw off the excuses, stand up, be counted and start as you mean to continue with one small word, Yes.
by Sr. Jo Anne Kelly MMM Ireland 31.12.2023
A few days before Christmas I had two health related appointments on the same day in different hospitals and in different towns. Luckily one was in the morning and the other in the afternoon. The first one was local and no problem. The second was at 2pm. The sister driving, I will call her Maeve, was not so familiar with the route. She had been there once and was shown the way but had not the chance to drive there herself, and so was uncertain. I had been that route many times and should have known it well but when not driving myself I do not pay much attention to the roads. We gave ourselves one hour to get there and we set out. We started with a prayer and Maeve said “We need an angel to guide us on this trip.” So together we said the prayer to our Guardian Angels which we learnt as children ending “——–ever this day be at our side to light and guard, to rule and guide.”
Approaching the town, we came to a roundabout and Maeve thought she remembered being told “Don’t go into the roundabout.” So we took a left turn and I soon knew that we were on the wrong road. Traffic was heavy, and there was no chance to turn. Eventually we came to a place where there was a small car park on the left and opposite, on the right ,was a house and pub. We drove into the park and Maeve waited for an opportunity to cross over to ask for directions. Cars were flying past and one heavy motor cycle roared past and disappeared quickly round the corner. Finally across, Maeve knocked on doors but there was no response from either house or pub, except the frantic barking of a dog which we couldn’t see. She had to wait again to get back. I was getting anxious about the time.
Just as she got to the car, the motorcycle roared back round the corner and came right in to where we were parked. The young man said “Are you alright?” Maeve explained. He took out his phone and started scrolling, found the information and explained to her how to reach the hospital. She thanked him and got back in the car. Then he got off the bike, came over and said, “Sure, look it! It’s only 6 minutes away. I’ll ride in front of you and you can follow me” and he insisted. We got on the road before he did and, when there was a chance, he whizzed past us and we followed him. We had to go through two roundabouts. He swung his big machine to the right and then he swung to the left and we started laughing for it seemed like we were swinging too. He went right into the hospital car park. He turned round came to the window and before we could thank him properly, with a lovely smile he wished us a happy Christmas and zoomed away. We had 15 minutes to spare before my appointment.
We had been visited by a Christmas Angel.
It reminded me of something in our MMM Constitutions
“See and seek God in all things
that you may recognize
the humble but often surprising ways
that God visits you,
to claim each moment of life”.
by Sr. Miriam (Mairead) O’Quigley MMM (1917 – 2003) Ireland/Tanzania 29.12.2023
A long time ago, cats did not live in our houses as they do now. They lived in the forest or in the bush. Then…
Once upon a time, a cat, a wise one, became the friend of a rabbit. They walked together and the cat was astonished at the cleverness of his friend. But one day a duiker antelope fought with the rabbit and killed it with his horn.
Now that his friend had died, the cat followed this duiker. Presently the duiker was killed by the leopard. The cat then thought he had better follow the latter. Not many days afterwards, they met a lion. The lion fought with the leopard and killed him. Now the poor cat made friends with the lion and they journeyed on together until one day they met a troop of elephants. A big male elephant fought with the lion until he killed him.
The cat thought in his heart, “I will make friends with a big animal like this one, for there is none that can conquer him.” But his trouble was not over yet. One day came a hunter who shot the elephant with poisoned arrows. The elephant died.
Now, this time the cat did not know what to do, never having seen an animal walking on two legs like this one, and he thought and thought, “If this fellow is able to kill a great big animal like an elephant, it is best to be friends with him that I may live in safety.”
So, he followed this hunter to his home and lay outside in a lean-to shed.
It was not long before he saw his brave man running away, routed by his wife, who was beating him with a pot-stick. And the cat said, “Now I know who surpasses and is the greatest of all – it is the woman.”
Since then, the cat has stayed at home with the woman, for it is she who rules.
Editor’s comment: This story is a little too violent for my liking but ended well. It also explains why my cat used to put its nose in the air and wandered off with distain. Basically he, too, didn’t like violence…)
by Sr. Mary Howard MMM (1939 – 2009) England/ Nigeria 27.12.2023
Editor’s note: Sr. Mary told this story back in 2003 when an understanding of Hansen’s Disease was increasing, and a cure had been found.
He was always known to us as Papa Dennis, though he must have been a very young man when he first came to Ogoja back in 1944. He was suffering from leprosy (Hansen’s Disease) then. He was among the workers who built the small houses that were dedicated as Marian Village, just across from St. Benedict’s TB and Leprosy Hospital.
Papa Dennis remembered the great programme initiated by Dr. Joseph Barnes in the mis-1940s. He was there when the crew came to make the MMM film “Visitation”. He remembered the visits of our foundress, Mother Mary Martin, and the MMMs who pioneered the care of leprosy in that vast area.
All that is a long time ago now. For his whole life since, Papa Dennis lived in one of the small mud-block houses, sharing the village life and its many activities.
With the advances in medicine, he had been cured many years ago. Now he was suffering the usual effects of growing old. He had visited his people on several occasions but preferred the companionship and independence the village offered. However, recently he had changed his mid about that and wanted so much to return to his family home. His niece told him they would be happy to help him to return and live among his own kin. He told me this with great pride, as we chatted together whilst the vehicle that would carry him home was being packed with his belongings.
For some time in Nigeria there have been various educational programmes in support of the repatriation of people who had formerly lived in segregation villages, and about self-reliance of those who were cured. This includes repatriation of handicapped residents of the former leprosy segregation villages.
Papa Dennis seemed contented as he said goodbye and took a last look around the village that had been his home for most of his life. He died a few weeks later and was buried among his people. Times and attitudes have changed. He was no longer considered an outcast, but one who was honoured because, as a young man, he had made the sacrifice of leaving his own home for the common good.
by Sr. Jo Anne Kelly MMM Ireland 25.12. 2023
Christmas was
the most special time of the year in our young lives. I grew up during the time of World War11 when everything was scarce and rationed. Farming people managed with what they had.
One neighbour whose wife had died very young, had a daughter, Judy, older than us. Judy had a bad limp and had to use a stick to walk. But Judy kept hens and also a flock of geese which she fattened for Christmas. We all loved Judy and most people supported her and bought a goose for Christmas dinner. Early on Christmas Eve my brother and I were sent to collect the goose. Judy had it ready, its feet firmly tied. My brother lifted it by the wings and we started for home. We were doing well until a neighbour’s dog came out barking and the goose went wild, wriggling and squawking. I grabbed the feet and the two of us ran laughing up the hill. My mother, hearing the commotion, came and took the goose round to the back. In a few minutes she touched some place in its neck and pulled. There was a fluttering of wings and the poor goose was dead. We did not know whether to laugh or cry. Later in the day we helped to pluck the goose. Well, at least, with our hands full of feathers we thought we were helping. Mam did the rest of the preparation.
On Christmas morning the five of us were up long before dawn, excited to know what Santa brought- simple things, like storybooks, board games, a skipping rope, jigsaw, some sweets and usually something to wear, like a warm jumper. Mass was very early in our small country chapel about two miles away. Electricity had not yet come to our part of the country so as we walked along some people carried lanterns which seemed to shine so brightly in the dark cold morning. Also many houses had a lighted candle in the window and we knew they were to guide Mary and Joseph on their way and welcome them with their new Baby Jesus. I loved the Latin Mass in the candlelit chapel though I didn’t understand the words. But somehow it added to the whole mystery and we knew a mystery was something we were not meant to understand!! After Mass we all wished each other a Happy Christmas as we started home in the morning light.
My father was always first home on his bike and had the fire lit, the kettle boiling and the frying pan on the stove. Some neighbours who had further to go came in to warm their hands and have a cup of hot tea before going further. Sometime in late afternoon we had dinner. There was some squabbling about who would get which part of the roasted goose but my mother easily settled it! She would remind us there were many children in world who had no goose to eat. Christmas pudding was unknown to us but we always had a lovely homemade Christmas cake.
Before dark we had our chores to do. The animals had to be fed and other outdoor jobs to be done. Since we did not have running water we had to fetch water from the pump down the road, enough for the night and the morning and enough coal to keep the fire going. When darkness came and the Tilly lamp was lit we settled down to our games. My father had taught us many card games. We all enjoyed those. Now we had the new board games too. My mother loved a game of draughts but you had to be good to compete with her. We took turns and occasionally one of us could beat her. She also had a sweet singing voice and taught us all the Christmas carols which now and again we would sing as we played. Often it was when one of was losing that he or she would start up a carol! I am sure not every Christmas was rosy but I do have lovely memories of those simple days and how we believed that the Baby Jesus had again come newly into our lives.
I recently read a quote from Pope Francis. “With Jesus, born in a manger, He came to be ‘our food’, feeding hungry humanity with His tender Love. He came to touch our hearts and to tell us that Love alone is the power that changes the course of History. Let me not let this Christmas go without doing something good so that a little hope can be born in someone who feels hopeless”
